tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post6570388742000168187..comments2023-10-29T10:24:23.730-04:00Comments on Things I Can't Say: Everybody's Doing It: Let's Talk About SexShellhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06811697675090627618noreply@blogger.comBlogger89125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-14186311575105766952011-04-04T19:56:29.263-04:002011-04-04T19:56:29.263-04:00I just wanted to let you know that I included this...I just wanted to let you know that I included this post on my "Great Links to Honest Sex Talk" :)<br /><br />http://mamamiamcmasters.blogspot.com/2011/04/great-links-to-honest-sex-talk.htmlLindaFayehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08640637058857410359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-27174523101552393662010-12-31T15:43:25.535-05:002010-12-31T15:43:25.535-05:00What's that....oh that's the sound of appl...What's that....oh that's the sound of applause...me, applauding you! Great post...great point....great! Doesn't matter your religious belief...sex was meant to be enjoyed with your spouse. So why do we blush and think we can't talk about it? How do you think we got 4 kids? Yep- sex! Even when you don't want to...it's important to your hubby, to you, and to your marriage! GREAT JOB!Crystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08354973669191454830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-59475069696811345492010-05-10T11:22:07.306-04:002010-05-10T11:22:07.306-04:00Hubs doesn't really ask much anymore. I agree ...Hubs doesn't really ask much anymore. I agree with the watching me have a child comment someone else made. Or maybe I've gained too much weight. Or maybe I'm too grouchy and he's not that interested. But we definitely need to have more sex. I'm just so scared to get preggo again!!!✿https://www.blogger.com/profile/01044032159371976375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-59070293682078077352010-04-18T22:05:53.449-04:002010-04-18T22:05:53.449-04:00I think that you may be my favorite new blog to fo...I think that you may be my favorite new blog to follow. Stopped from Friday Follow and so glad I did.<br /><br />Hope you'll stop at www.mrthompsonandme.blogspot.comMr. Thompson and Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17776375290138087387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-45965244876324410982010-04-01T23:20:43.813-04:002010-04-01T23:20:43.813-04:00LOVE this post, so I'm sticking around. Newest...LOVE this post, so I'm sticking around. Newest follower!Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14039414105753673690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-48012186082289958712010-03-17T23:20:59.923-04:002010-03-17T23:20:59.923-04:00Wow, girl, you're on a roll this week with all...Wow, girl, you're on a roll this week with all these "deep thought" kinds of posts. You're making me really think about all this!!<br /><br />I'm guilty of saying no to my hubby at least 95% of the time. We can go months without having sex and I'm perfectly happy that way. But I do notice he stops asking after awhile and I usually have to initiate it to let him know that I'm game if he wants (and he NEVER turns me down). <br /><br />I do notice that when we finally do have sex, I feel closer to him. We always end up laying there afterwards saying, "We should do this more often" but then I go back to denying him and eventually he stops asking. <br /><br />I'm gonna try to say yes more often. It probably would help me feel more positive about our marriage.<br /><br />Thank you for posting this! Have I told you lately how much I enjoy your blog??Helenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10743718606624231459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-13578000497858479682010-03-17T10:55:58.784-04:002010-03-17T10:55:58.784-04:00Gosh, what a test you're giving us, Shell!! Fo...Gosh, what a test you're giving us, Shell!! For the love of God! <br /><br />Actually, I started feeling really bad lately that I was putting him down, AND I realized (over a bottle of wine w/some of my friends the other day/night) that I never, and I mean NEVER, initiate. <br /><br />So, I texted him some cutesy anticipatory words... actually gave him some major affection, and initiated the evening with some unexpected items... and I've NEVER seen him beam like that! It's ironic, b/c it was 2 days ago... right around when you initiated the challenge; however, I didn't read the challenge until right now!!<br /><br />Thanks for keeping things in perpective!Kat @ www.TodaysCliche.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12963153282575535121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-14001340049418112922010-03-15T15:22:47.717-04:002010-03-15T15:22:47.717-04:00Just stumbled along and um.. after 9 years togethe...Just stumbled along and um.. after 9 years together (6 married) and 4 kids.. I never say no.. My hubby is the one that gets headaches... we generally do "something" everyday. ;)mama of 4https://www.blogger.com/profile/09803895296065356311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-74795092952887028672010-03-15T00:11:37.880-04:002010-03-15T00:11:37.880-04:00Hi there!
We came across your blog through the FF...Hi there!<br /><br />We came across your blog through the FF and are now following you! :) Hope you had a fantastic weekend! <3Freely Living Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07598090032252426157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-81164571263430677232010-03-14T15:46:42.051-04:002010-03-14T15:46:42.051-04:00My Husband and I have been married almost 7 years,...My Husband and I have been married almost 7 years, and together almost 11. We make love (and sometimes the hardcore sex!!!!) atleast twice a week. Very rarely do we ever say no to each other. When we do its usually because we are somewhere where we shouldnt be having sex anyway!!!!<br /><br />Happy Sunday. I am a new Friday Follower!!<br /><br />Sarah<br /><br />sarahsblogoffun.blogspot.comSarah Coulseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02808292430614359653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-49072771768731890732010-03-13T23:17:12.248-05:002010-03-13T23:17:12.248-05:00I'm back because I realize I didn't even c...I'm back because I realize I didn't even comment on the sex part. <br /><br />I agree with you about an intimate relationship. While I have not always said yes every single time, we have a very active sex life. Also, I like sex. It feels good and keeps us close. Not just for the guys ya know.<br /><br />We also flirt and talk dirty and meet for make out lunch. We've been married for almost 17 years now. Love it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-54012288695526781572010-03-13T17:47:56.392-05:002010-03-13T17:47:56.392-05:00Hope it's not tmi to say that I am going to ta...Hope it's not tmi to say that I am going to take your challenge. Everything you said is so true, and I know it, but I still don't make as much effort as I should. I'll let you know what happens. Not the details or anything. I love your blog :)Tam and Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06321200560356498388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-9358874047740125852010-03-13T17:15:05.925-05:002010-03-13T17:15:05.925-05:00Shell--I love this! You are right in everything yo...Shell--I love this! You are right in everything you said. I love that we can talk about this and not feel shy or embarrased. It is a part of life and it's a great part of life. I love how you just say how it is. :) Great post! (as is all your others)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-61113578952415869362010-03-13T10:15:27.240-05:002010-03-13T10:15:27.240-05:00Hi! Stopping by from SITS and I have to tell you, ...Hi! Stopping by from SITS and I have to tell you, I've been married 23 years and I am the same exact way. <br />My husband works hard, gives us all a beautiful life and it's just a fact of life, men are men. Their sex drive is one of the most innate parts of them. I constantly coach my friends. How hard is it to give a little something of yourself in return for a happy man. I feel the same way. There are many times I am bone tired, but I have never regretted saying yes. You should make a button for that! Just say Yes.Joann Mannixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11163491824085428085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-76117135532473424742010-03-12T21:43:00.244-05:002010-03-12T21:43:00.244-05:00Holy moly! I still can't believe you did this ...Holy moly! I still can't believe you did this after falling down the stairs. I'd be nursing my ego. :0)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-27043521081849548782010-03-12T18:20:08.630-05:002010-03-12T18:20:08.630-05:00Hey, Happy Friday follow! i'm a New follower,...Hey, Happy Friday follow! i'm a New follower, love meeting new blogging friends. Have a great weekend.Michelle Faithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07021888584060015558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-80013673633646662342010-03-12T17:07:57.138-05:002010-03-12T17:07:57.138-05:00Here's the first partof my comment that I anno...Here's the first partof my comment that I announced yesterday: <br /><br />http://tinyurl.com/y8mo9xj<br /><br />Don't read it if you don't like it. I don't intend to offend anyone. Sorry if I do >:)CA Heavenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07558100567878233142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-67312236540859828932010-03-12T16:37:42.530-05:002010-03-12T16:37:42.530-05:00Hmmm... I rarely say no, but my husband rarely as...Hmmm... I rarely say no, but my husband rarely asks for "it" either. I wonder what that means? Maybe he's getting it somewhere else!?RN Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13843277989677810339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-66371654010412597122010-03-12T15:47:50.367-05:002010-03-12T15:47:50.367-05:00What an introduction to your blog!!! This is a gr...What an introduction to your blog!!! This is a great post!<br /><br />I'm a new follower ... happy FF.<br />:)Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01158097154114165320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-14110377318892872832010-03-12T15:30:55.639-05:002010-03-12T15:30:55.639-05:00And then there's married for 35 years, on high...And then there's married for 35 years, on high blood pressure meds sex. I never say no, more like, now???? Please??????????? Sex is different these days, more snuggles and cuddles. I am happy with all I can get, no matter that is no longer what it once was. Married love just continues to grow and develope over the years, making for comfort and security as we get older. We know we belong to each other forever. <br /><br />Found you on Friday Follow. Come visit Steadfast and say hello.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06121172465022137270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-22669351233588148112010-03-12T15:28:00.984-05:002010-03-12T15:28:00.984-05:00Passing by from FF, I am now following you :) Love...Passing by from FF, I am now following you :) Love your blog!Ms Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16304006540229239219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-34702829158787457902010-03-12T15:25:21.245-05:002010-03-12T15:25:21.245-05:00I found you through follow friday. I am now follow...I found you through follow friday. I am now following you :) <br /><br />www.livelovelaughwithleslie.com♥ LLL with Leslie ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/07730471893054622874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-11763215776231814702010-03-12T13:34:48.683-05:002010-03-12T13:34:48.683-05:00You're right... there's sex... there's...You're right... there's sex... there's married sex... and there's married-with-kids sex... three VERY different variations on a theme!<br /><br />~Elizabeth<br /><a href="http://confessionsfromaworkingmom.com" rel="nofollow"> Confessions From A Working Mom</a>Confessions From A Work-At-Home Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17537552947779004296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-87996157045453655992010-03-12T13:02:22.539-05:002010-03-12T13:02:22.539-05:00Hi Found you on follow friday. i am not a girl who...Hi Found you on follow friday. i am not a girl who says no. 9 times of out 10 its me saying lets go and hurry up. I know my time with the hubby is limited. He is leaving for the army. <br /><br />Have a great weekend and I look forward to reading moreMs. Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04407911948090336935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3027534132693377698.post-64042744228716415122010-03-12T09:42:45.187-05:002010-03-12T09:42:45.187-05:00Visiting from FF. I usually don't say no - unl...Visiting from FF. I usually don't say no - unless he comes in at 2am after watching TV and I am passed out cold with drool all over me. Sorry not interested - but otherwise - 6pm on the couch - sure babe - no problem! :)Dihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14097805982872810142noreply@blogger.com